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🔺 The Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him said : “I advise you ten things: 👉 Do not kill women or children or an aged, infirm person. Do not cut down fruit-bearing trees. Do not destroy an inhabited place. Do not slaughter sheep or camels except for food. Do not burn bees and do not scatter them. Do not steal from the booty, and do not be cowardly.” This was narrated in Bukhari Volume 004, Book 052, Hadith Number 257. 👉He also said ,  ” ..Do not behave treacherously, nor misappropriate war-booty, nor mutilate [those whom you kill], nor kill children, nor the people in cloisters.”  This was narrated in  (Musnad Ahmad, Sunan At-Tirmidhî) He also said,  “…Do not kill a woman, nor a child, nor an old-aged man’  (Sharh as-Sunnah Al-Baghawî) 👉 The Prophet said: Go in Allah’s name, trusting in Allah, and adhering to the religion of Allah’s Apostle.  Do not kill a decrepit old man, a young infant, or a child, or a woman; do not be dishonest about booty, but coll...

AVOIDING UNNECESSARY PRESSURE 1. Put your kids in       schools you can afford      because expensive      schools don't       guarantee good      results. Just ensure      they attend a good      affordable school 2. Rent apartments you      can pay for     conveniently. Don’t live      in a house you struggle      to pay yearly. 3. Let’s plan our lives and      live within our means.      Save more and spend      less. 4. Some women buy food      for their children every      morning before going      to school or even for      the whole family, do      you know it’s cheaper      to cook at home? 5. Some people don’t      earn much, but have      DSTV at h...

*Cara Berbakti pada Orang Tua yang Telah Meninggal Dunia* عن أبي عسيد مالك بن ربيعة السعدى رضي الله عنه قال، بَيْنَا نَحْنُ عِنْدَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ -صلى الله عليه وسلم- إِذَا جَاءَهُ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِى سَلِمَةَ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ هَلْ بَقِىَ مِنْ بِرِّ أَبَوَىَّ شَىْءٌ أَبَرُّهُمَا بِهِ بَعْدَ مَوْتِهِمَا قَالَ « نَعَمِ الصَّلاَةُ عَلَيْهِمَا وَالاِسْتِغْفَارُ لَهُمَا وَإِنْفَاذُ عَهْدِهِمَا مِنْ بَعْدِهِمَا وَصِلَةُ الرَّحِمِ الَّتِى لاَ تُوصَلُ إِلاَّ بِهِمَا وَإِكْرَامُ صَدِيقِهِمَا ». Dari Abu Usaid Malik bin Rabi’ah As-Sa’idi, ia berkata,“Suatu saat kami pernah berada di sisi Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Ketika itu ada datang seseorang dari Bani Salimah, ia berkata, “Wahai Rasulullah, apakah masih ada bentuk berbakti kepada kedua orang tuaku ketika mereka telah meninggal dunia?” Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam menjawab, “Iya (masih tetap ada bentuk berbakti pada keduanya, pen.). (Bentuknya adalah) mendo’akan keduanya, meminta ampun untuk keduanya, memenuhi j...

Bismillah Berdasarkan penelitian ulama ahli sejarah Muhammad Sulaiman Al Mansurfury dan ahli astronomi Mahmud Basya disimpulkan bahwa hari senin pagi yang bertepatan dengan permulaan tahun dari peristiwa penyerangan pasukan gajah dan 40 tahun setelah kekuasaan Kisra Anusyirwan atau bertepatan dengan 20 atau 22 april tahun 571 M, hari senin tersebut bertepatan dengan tanggal 9 Rabi’ul Awal. (Ar Rahiqum Makhtum). Tanggal Wafat Para ulama ahli sejarah menyatakan bahwa beliau meninggal pada hari senin tanggal 12 Rabi’ul Awal tahun 11 H dalam usia 63 tahun lebih empat hari. Catatan Penting Satu catatan penting yang perlu kita perhatikan dari dua kenyataan sejarah di atas. Perbedaan para ulama dalam menentukan tanggal kelahiran Nabi shallallahu ‘alahi wa sallam dan tanggal wafatnya beliau shallallahu ‘alahi wa sallam. Kenyataan ini menunjukkan bahwa para ulama tidak banyak memberikan perhatian terhadap tanggal kelahiran Nabi shallallahu ‘alahi wa sallam. Alasannya, penentuan kapan beliau dil...

Ini amalan ikut Imam Syafi'i yang mana yaa?  By Siswo Kusyudhanto Beberapa waktu yang lalu saya melakukan perjalanan ke beberapa kota di Jawa, dibeberapa pojok kota sering menjumpai baliho besar ajakan mengikuti acara tabligh akbar acara shalawat yang kebanyakan diiringi dengan musik, andai panitia atau pengisi kegiatan ini ditanya mereka ikut mazhab mana mungkin kebanyakan mereka akan menjawab ikut mazhab Syafi'i, padahal Imam Syafi'i sendiri mengingkari dzikir termasuk shalawat didalamnya dilakukan dengan iringan musik,  Imam Asy Syafi’i berkata, Di Iraq, aku meninggalkan sesuatu yang dinamakan taghbiir, istilah Sejenis sya’ir berisi anjuran untuk zuhud di dunia yang dinyanyikan oleh orang-orang Shufi, dan sebagian hadirin memukul-mukulkan kayu pada bantal atau kulit sesuai dengan irama lagunya.  (Yaitu) perkara baru yang diada-adakan oleh Zanadiqah  yakni rang-orang zindiq ; menyimpang, mereka menghalangi manusia dari Al Qur’an.” ,  Perkataan Imam Syafi'i ini...

Oh I have a bunch of these. Been a Software Developer in multiple companies for close to 10 years and I could not stress more on the following. I’ll keep adding when I think of something new. Drink Coffee. Coffee is your best friend on a long day. (This is a personal opinion) Please solve your problems the right way. Don’t work around the problem and deliver a quick fix. It will backfire on you. Commit your code at regular intervals and push your code at least once in 2 days. Don’t have a lot of uncommitted code on your local environment. You never know when the system is gonna go down. Never use short forms for variable names. It’ll be a nightmare to understand your code after few months. In the same vision as the point above, always add appropriate comments to your code. Documentation should always live with the code. This is the current best practice. Example - Use /** Javadocs comments */ instead of writing bunch of confluence pages. Externalize all your static variables. This will...

THE SYSTEM WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE IN THESE 6 LIES... You have to Wake up before it gets late: 1. News The news is there to hack your attention. Not to keep you informed. They want you to: • Be Distracted • Believe their lies • Stay under their control Observe with your mind not your eyes. 2. Failure "You should avoid failure there is one correct answer." Wrong. Make mistakes so you can: • Grow • Learn • Strengthen your skills Nobody is born perfect. Embrace failure and see it as an opportunity to grow. 3. Work hard You should work smart, not hard. Don't get me wrong, it will still get hard sometimes, but they want you to trade your time for money your whole life. 1 Minute of your life is worth more than all money combined. Stop valuing it more than your time. 4. Money Until 1971, money was tied to gold, which gave money value. Nowadays, money is tied to nothing. Money is basically worthless. Learn how: • To create money with no money • To make money work for you • Money wor...