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wah menarik nih! 1️⃣  Banyak belajar ilmu baru  : selagi ada waktu kosong, belajar banyak hal yang bermanfaat, (cth: ilmu digital marketing, SEO, social media content, dll) 2️⃣  Olahraga  : jaman kuliah boro-boro olahraga, tapi sekarang malah ketagihan sama olahraga. 3️⃣  Batasi main sosmed  : skrg udh jarang banget aktif di ig, karna bukan konten kreator di sana dan ga dapet duit juga, jadi ga penting” amat buat buka ig, kadang bisa sebulan ga buka ig sama sekali haha. 4️⃣  cut off orang-orang toxic  : ini jitu banget buat self-improvement ( dijamin ) 5️⃣  Tidur cukup  : kalau kurang tidur bawaannya emosian sama tensi naik wkwk, sekarang udah bisa tidur enak tanpa beban. 6️⃣  Minum air putih sehari minimal 2–3 Liter!  ini wajib 7️⃣  Podcast  : Lebih banyak dengerin podcast daripada musik, (jadi pengen bikin podcast juga sih) 8️⃣  Perbanyak Relasi  : dengan banyak kenal sama orang, jadi makin banyak pelajara...

✅ INI ADALAH SHOLAWAT SHAHIH YANG ADA TUNTUNAN NYA DALAM SYARI'AT ISLAM .. ✅👉Lafazh bacaan shalawat yang paling ringkas yang sesuai dengan dalil-dalil yang shahih: اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ “Ya Tuhan kami, limpahkanlah shalawat ke atas Nabi Muhammad dan ke atas keluarganya .” (An Nasa’i: 1292, shahih) ✅Begitu pula dalam hadits yang shahih adalah : اَللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلِّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ Allahumma shollii wa sallim ‘alaa nabiyyinaa Muhammad. “Ya Allah, limpahkanlah shalawat dan salam kepada Nabi kami Muhammad) . (SHAHIH. HR. At-Thabrani melalui dua isnad, keduanya baik. Lihat Majma’ Az-Zawaid 10/120 dan Shahih At- Targhib wat Tarhib 1/273) ✅1)sholawat yang shahih  Dari jalan Ka’ab bin ‘Ujrah اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على إبراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت على إبراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد“ ✅Allaahumma shalli ‘alaa Muhammad wa ‘alaa aali Muhammad kamaa shallaita ‘alaa ib...

Sejak lama saya mengkritik Jokowi dan keluarganya. Bukan cuma beretorika tentang dinasti politik (yang faktanya juga dilegalkan oleh MK), privilege (hak istimewa) anggota keluarga, atau seremeh rebutan predikat cawapres. Kita perlu belajar memandang sesuatu secara substansial, penuh pertimbangan yang prinsip, dan jelas fakta-faktanya.  Jangan gampang silau karena pandangan mata: mudah dibodohi! *** Apa yang diributkan sekarang mengenai batas usia capres/cawapres mengandaikan sejumlah ilusi: fantasi 'liar' kita yang pandir tentang kenyataan. Ilusi bahwa pemerintahan bapaknya itu baik sehingga keturunannya pun pasti baik makanya perlu diberi hak istimewa untuk memerintah berikutnya. Kategori "baik" dan "puas" didapat dari hasil survei berbasis responden yang masih mungkin dipertanyakan, berubah, karena dipersandingkan objektivitasnya dengan kenyataan yang senantiasa terus berubah. Ilusi bahwa hakim MK adalah manusia paripurna yang telah selesai dengan hidup ke...

Back in the day, Stallone was a struggling actor in every definition. At some point, he got so broke that he stole his wife’s jewelry and sold it. Things got so bad that he even ended up homeless. Yes, he slept at the New York bus station for 3 days. Unable to pay rent or afford food. His lowest point came when he tried to sell his dog at the liquor store to any stranger. He didn’t have money to feed the dog anymore. He sold it at $25 only. He says he walked away crying. Two weeks later, he saw a boxing match between Mohammed Ali and Chuck Wepner and that match gave him the inspiration to write the script for the famous movie, ROCKY. He wrote the script for 20 hours! He tried to sell it and got an offer for $125,000 for the script. But he had just ONE REQUEST. He wanted to STAR in the movie. He wanted to be the MAIN ACTOR, Rocky himself. But the studio said NO. They wanted a REAL STAR. They said he “Looked funny and talked funny”. He left with his script. A few weeks later, the studio ...

“ In Washington DC, at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, a man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work. After about four minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule. About four minutes later, the violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk. At six minutes, a young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again. At ten minutes, a three-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without ex...

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim اَلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَا تُهُ 📿7 KEUTAMAAN ISTIGHFAR📿 1. Orang yang beristighfar dicintai oleh Allah  (QS. Al-Baqarah : 222) 2. Orang yang beristighfar dosanya diampuni oleh Allah  (HR. Ibnu Majah, Tirmidzi) 3. Orang yang beristighfar akan mendapat balasan surga  (QS. Al-Imran : 135 – 136) 4.  Orang yang beristighfar akan mengecewakan Setan  (HR. Ahmad dan Al-Hakim) 5. Orang yang beristighfar akan Allah lancarkan rezekinya  (HR. Abu Daud, Ibnu Majah, dan Ahmad) 6. Orang yang beristighfar akan Allah tambahan kesejahteraan nya  (QS. Nuh: 10-12) 7. Orang yang beristighfar akan menjadi orang yang beruntung  (HR. Bukhari) *Semoga Bermanfaat🙏* https://www.facebook.com/groups/ustadzkhalidbasalamah/permalink/3479609072304744/?mibextid=9R9pXO

ONE DAY ONE HADITS Selasa,  10 Oktober 2023  24 Rab'iul Awwal 1445 *Pelaku Mujaharah Dosanya Tidak Diampuni*  عن سالم بن عبد اللّه قال: سمعت أبا هريرة يقول سمعت رسول اللّه صلّى اللّه عليه وسلّم- يقول: كُلُّ أُمَّتِي مُعَافًى إِلَّا الْمُجَاهِرِينَ ، وَإِنَّ مِنْ الْمُجَاهَرَةِ أَنْ يَعْمَلَ الرَّجُلُ بِاللَّيْلِ عَمَلًا ثُمَّ يُصْبِحَ وَقَدْ سَتَرَهُ اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ فَيَقُولَ : يَا فُلَانُ عَمِلْتُ الْبَارِحَةَ كَذَا وَكَذَا، وَقَدْ بَاتَ يَسْتُرُهُ رَبُّهُ، وَيُصْبِحُ يَكْشِفُ سِتْرَ اللَّهِ عَنْه Dari Salim bin Abdullah, dia berkata, Aku mendengar Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu’ anhu bercerita bahwa beliau pernah mendengar Rasulullah shallallahu alaihi wasallam bersabda, ‘Setiap umatku akan mendapat ampunan, kecuali mujahirin (orang-orang yang terang-terangan berbuat dosa). Dan yang termasuk terang-terangan berbuat dosa adalah seseorang berbuat (dosa) pada malam hari, kemudian pada pagi hari dia menceritakannya, padahal Allah telah menutupi perbuatannya tersebut, yang mana ...

*INFORMASI PENTING BAGI LANSIA*  Para Lanjut Usia (lansia) dan anak yang merawat lansia harap menyimpan artikel ini untuk waspada atas kejadian2 yg membahayakan atau potensi cacat dihari tua. Sebuah studi di Amerika Serikat menyebutkan lebih dari 51%  orang lanjut usia jatuh karena naik tangga. Para ahli menyarankan setelah berusia 65 tahun (lansia) untuk TIDAK melakukan 10 tindakan di bawah ini : 1. Lansia dilarang naik tangga 2. Lansia dilarang terlalu cepat menoleh/membalikkan badan 3. Lansia dilarang membungkuk menyentuh telapak kaki 4. Lansia dilarang mengenakan celana sambil berdiri 5. Lansia dilarang sit up 6. Lansia dilarang memutar pinggang ke kiri dan kanan 7. Lansia dilarang berjalan mundur 8. Lansia dilarang membungkuk untuk mengangkat barang berat 9. Lansia dilarang mendadak berdiri meninggalkan ranjang atau tempat tidur 10. Lansia dilarang mengejan/ngeden terlalu keras Bagikan kepada banyak lansia : sebuah gerakan untuk mencegah 20.000 orang lansia meninggal duni...

A WISE MAN ONCE SAID 1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to; 2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the person that borrowed you remember or ask for it. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes. 3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. 4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem; 5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public; 6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time; 7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Bes...

Michael Jordan, berkulit hitam, lahir pada tahun 1963, di daerah kumuh Brooklyn, New York. Ia memiliki empat orang saudara, sementara upah ayahnya yang hanya sedikit tidak cukup untuk menafkahi keluarga. Semenjak kecil, ia melewati kehidupannya dalam lingkungan miskin dan penuh diskriminasi, hingga ia sama sekali tidak bisa melihat harapan masa depannya. Ketika ia berusia tiga belas tahun, ayahnya memberikan sehelai pakaian bekas kepadanya, “Menurutmu, berapa nilai pakaian ini?” Jordan menjawab, “Mungkin 1 dollar.” Ayahnya kembali berkata, “Bisakah dijual seharga 2 dollar? Jika engkau berhasil menjualnya, berarti telah membantu ayah dan ibumu.” Jordan menganggukkan kepalanya, “Saya akan mencobanya, tapi belum tentu bisa berhasil.” Dengan hati-hati dicucinya pakaian itu hingga bersih. Karena tidak ada setrika untuk melicinkan pakaian, maka ia meratakan pakaian dengan sikat di atas papan datar, kemudian dijemur sampai kering. Keesokan harinya, dibawanya pakaian itu ke stasiun bawah tanah...

Ngobrol sama seseorang tentang Tiktokshop yg ditutup. Kebetulan orang ini jualan di tiktoknya keren banget omsetnya. Sebagai yg sama2 jualan di sana, sedikit faham rasanya.  Saya bilang, "Pasti sedih ya ditutup. Sabar ya. Semoga dibukakan rezeki dari pintu lain," Di luar dugaan dia malah menjawab. "Saya malah bersyukur Tiktokshop ditutup teh. Saya ingin kembali hidup normal." Saya terkejut ga faham. "Maksudnya? Bukannya selama ini jualannya di Tiktok? Omsetnya dapat dari Tiktok?" "Iya betul teh. Tp saya rindu hidup normal. Saya ingin tiap malam meluk dan kumpul dg anak2. Bukan malah live. Abis magrib murojaah bareng, abis isya kumpul dan makan bareng. Tengah malam pengennya mesra2an dengan Allah, tahajud bareng sama suami, ini malah ngurusin live. Kantor dulu normal aja jam kerja, sekarang buka 24 jam.  Saya nyimak dengan seksama. "Sejak ada Tiktok, omset memang naik, tapi hidup berasa ga karuan. Serba salah. Mau live siang jam kerja, ga ada yg n...

Mr. Bean (Rowan Atkinson) – The story of the man who never gave up on his dreams. Rowan Atkinson was born in a middle-class family and suffered terribly as a child because of his stuttering. He was also teased and bullied at school because of his looks. His bullies thought he looked like an alien. He was soon marked a strange and became a very shy, withdrawn kid who didn’t have many friends, so he dived into science, one of his teachers said. There was nothing outstanding about him. I did not expect him to be a brilliant scientist, but he has proved everyone wrong. Admitted to Oxford University during his days, he started falling in love with acting but couldn’t perform due to his speaking disorder. he got his master’s degree in electrical engineering before appearing in any movie or TV show after getting his degree, he decided to pursue his dream and become an actor so he enrolled in a comedy group but again, his stammering got in the way. A lot of TV shows rejected him, and he felt d...

ﺑِﺴْـــــــــــــــــــــــــﻢِ ﺍﻟﻠﻪِ ﺍﻟﺮَّﺣْﻤَﻦِ ﺍﻟﺮَّﺣِﻴْـــﻢ  اَلسَّــلاَمُ عَلَیْــکُمْ وَرَحْمَةُاللّٰـــــہِ  وَبَرَکَاتُــــــہُ 🍂" Bantahan syubhat dari tulisan ini ; “Katanya tidak butuh dalil mencintai Rasulullah, Sebab Rasulullah tidak perlu syarat mencintai ummatnya“. Jawab : A. Justru mencintai Rasulullah butuh dalil agar tidak salah menempatkan cinta dan menjadi ghuluw, sebab Rasulullah melarang ummatnya mencintai yg berlebihan. Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda:  إِيَّاكُمْ وَالْغُلُوَّ فِي الدِّيْنِ، فَإِنَّمَا أَهْلَكَ مَنْ كَانَ قَبْلَكُمْ اَلْغُلُوُّ فِي الدِّيْنِ.  “Jauhkanlah diri kalian dari ghuluw (berlebih-lebihan) dalam agama, karena sesungguhnya sikap ghuluw ini telah membinasakan orang-orang sebelum kalian.” [HR. Ahmad. Shahih] B. Rasulullah justru memberikan syarat agar ummatnya mendapatkan syafaat. Salah satu syaratnya menjauhi bid'ah. Abu Wail, dari ‘Abdullah, Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, أَنَا فَرَطُكُمْ...

A strange visit to the house A woman in modest dress, accompanied by her husband, dressed in a comfortable but cheap suit, got off a train at Boston Station and went to the Harvard University principal's office. They did not make an appointment. At first glance, the secretary decided that those people at Harvard had nothing to look for. "We'd like to meet with the school principal," the man said in a silenced voice. "He'll be busy all day," the drought secretary answered. "We'll wait," the woman said. The secretary ignored the visitors for several hours hoping that at some point they would be disappointed and leave on their own. However, when she made sure that they wouldn't go anywhere themselves, she decided to harass the director and inform about their visit. "Maybe if you accept them for a minute and wake them up, then they'd rather leave? " she asked the director The director sighed angrily and agreed. As important as...

A father used to say to his children when they were young: —When you all  reach the age of 12  I will tell you the secret of life. One day when the oldest turned 12, he anxiously asked his father what was the secret of life. The father replied that he was going to tell him, but that he should not reveal it to his brothers. —The secret of life is this: The cow does not give milk. "What are you saying?" Asked the boy incredulously. —As you hear it, son: The cow does not give milk, you have to milk it. You have to get up at 4 in the morning, go to the field, walk through the corral full of manure, tie the tail, hobble the legs of the cow, sit on the stool, place the bucket and do the work yourself. That is the secret of life, the cow does not give milk. You milk her or you don't get milk. There is this generation that thinks that cows GIVE milk. That things are automatic and free: their mentality is that if "I wish, I ask..... I obtain." "They have been accust...

The easiest way of catching a flu is by hanging out with someone with a flu. The easiest way to catch bad habits is by hanging out with those with bad habits. Never underestimate the power of association because iron sharpens iron.  You can't be different from those you closely associate with. Your association will determine your acceleration in life. You can be found with people who are going nowhere and expect to go somewhere. It is important to mention though that it is not only the people you are found with that will influence you but the people you follow on social media, the songs you listen to,  the books you read etc. Just because someone is an influencer doesn't mean you should follow them. Learn to distinguish between a positive influencer and a negative influencer. Sadly many are bored in life and have no direction and are therefore looking for entertainment more than education. The truth is some of you have been found in bad situations because of negative influence...

15 BENEFITS OF KEEPING YOUR LIFE PRIVATE  1. The less you share, the less likely people will be in your business. 2. You'll stop caring about people's opinion about your life. 3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you. 4. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone. 5. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information. 6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life. 7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals. 8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level. 9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely. 10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack. 11. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. 12. People will want to know more about y...

Purpose of life Once upon a time, there lived a wise man.  His son, however, was very lazy and wasted his time sleeping and spending time with his friends. The years passed, and with time faded the youth of the wise man. As he grew older, he began to worry  about his son’s future. He recognized the need to give something to his son so that he can take care of himself and his family to be. One day, he called his son to his room and said : “I want you to find the real purpose of your life and when you find it remember it always and you will lead a life full of happiness and joy.” Then he handed his son a bag. When the son opened the bag, he was surprised to see 4 pair of clothes, one for each season. There also were some raw food, grains, lentils, little money and a map. His father continued-“I want you to go find a treasure. I have drawn a map of the place where the treasure is hidden, you need to go and find it.” The son loved this idea. The next day, he eagerly set out on a j...

𝑯𝒂𝒗𝒆 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒆𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒓𝒆𝒅 𝒊𝒕 𝒃𝒆𝒇𝒐𝒓𝒆 ?  In the year 2123, exactly 100 years from now, we shall all be laid to rest beside our loved ones. Our homes, which we have fought so hard to create, will be occupied by total strangers, and they will possess all we have right now. Everything we own, even the expensive car we didn't even buy yet, will eventually be scrapped and sold to a collector nobody has ever heard of. Our offspring won't recognise us or remember us for very long. How many of us can name the father of our grandfather? A few years after our deaths, our history, photographs, and acts will fade into history's oblivion, at which point we will be remembered only as a portrait on someone's bookshelf. There won't be any trace of us left. Maybe if we took a day to reflect on these issues, we'd see how foolish and feeble the desire to have it all really is. We would be different people with new perspectives and ways of thinking if only...

T Apa kamu tidak bahagia dengan kelahiran anakmu?J Bahagia,  tapi kenapa kamu tidak merayakan hari ulang tahun mu ?  Dengkelmu amblek ,lha apa standar cinta itu hanya merayakan hari lahir anak saya ? Dan sayapun tidak pernah seumur hidup saya merayakan hari ulang tahun anak ,ggaya koyo wong sugeh wae raya rayaan ultah, wong aku mbayar SPP anak wae nunggak kok arep Raya rayaan ultah. 🤭🤭 https://www.facebook.com/100000675277951/posts/pfbid02UqEvrnANokGsG3AtPGpkgXLJdUhsp8XPHvX5trbgunM82WCuPMREuk1622TSo1Aql/?mibextid=9R9pXO

TIGA PERTANYAAN BAGI ‘PECANDU’ PERINGATAN MAULID NABI Berikut ini adalah tiga pertanyaan yang kami tujukan kepada saudara-saudara seislam yang masih hobi dan kecanduan melakukan peringatan Maulid Nabi. Mudah-mudahan dengan membaca dan merenungkan tiga pertanyaan ini, mereka mendapat taufiK dan hidayah dari Allah untuk segera bertobat dari kekeliruannya dalam mencintai dan mengagungkan Nabi Muhammad ﷺ. Dan mereka segera kembali ke jalan yang lurus dan benar, sebagaimana yang telah ditempuh oleh Nabi ﷺ beserta para istri dan sahabat beliau -radhiyallahu anhum-, dan juga para ulama Islam terdahulu yang saleh rahimahumullah-. » 1. Pertanyaan Pertama: Apakah peringatan Maulid Nabi itu termasuk amalan ketaatan ataukah kemaksiatan? Sudah pasti mereka akan menjawab: ‘Peringatan Maulid Nabi adalah termasuk amalan ketaatan.’ Sebab jika jawaban mereka adalah ‘Peringatan Maulid Nabi termasuk perbuatan maksiat,’ maka berakhirlah perselisihan pendapat di antara kita (Ahlus Sunnah) dengan mereka. » 2...

Thoughts to Ponder....... Why isn’t the number 11 pronounced onety-one? If 4 out of 5 people SUFFER from diarrhea...does that mean that one out of five enjoys it? Why do croutons come in airtight packages? Aren't they just stale bread to begin with? If people from Poland are called Poles, then why aren't people from Holland called Holes? If a pig loses its voice, is it disgruntled? Why is a person who plays the piano called a pianist, but a person who drives a race car is not called a racist? If it's true that we are here to help others, then what exactly are the others here for? If lawyers are disbarred and clergymen defrocked, then doesn't it follow that electricians can be delighted, musicians denoted, cowboys deranged, models deposed, tree surgeons debarked, and dry cleaners depressed? Do Lipton Tea employees take 'coffee breaks?' What hair color do they put on the driver's licenses of bald men? I thought about how mothers feed their babies with tiny lit...

Pakdhe Jum berangkat kerja naik mobil avanza putih Suasana seperti di Sugihan. Saya sedang di halaman depan, pojok depan barat ada kolam kecil, berisi air yg benibg, terlihat ada ikan kecil warna merah keemasan. Pakdhe Jum mutar mobil di halaman, terus berangkat lewat barat rumah ke utara. Sempat ngobrol bentar sama Budhe Jum, cerita bahwa kerjaan Pakdhe sekarang di Karanggede, dng truk canvas saat ada pameran. Jadi, jualannya hanya sore ampe malam, tapi berangkat tetap pagi karena untuk persiapan. Budhe Jum bersama mas Ayik, bertanya: "Awal ayat surat pertengahan Al Quran?", "Alhamdulillah", jawab Ayik

⚠️ SEJARAH KELAM MAULID NABI. Oleh : Ustadz Muhammad Abduh Tuasikal, MSc. Jika kita menelusuri dalam kitab tarikh (sejarah), perayaan Maulid Nabi tidak kita temukan pada masa sahabat, tabi’in, tabi’ut tabi’in dan empat Imam Madzhab (Imam Abu Hanifah, Imam Malik, Imam Syafi’i dan Imam Ahmad), padahal mereka adalah orang-orang yang sangat cinta dan mengagungkan Nabinya shallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Mereka adalah orang-orang yang paling paham mengenai sunnah Nabinya shallallahu alaihi wa sallam dan paling semangat dalam mengikuti setiap ajaran beliau. Perlu diketahui pula bahwa -menurut pakar sejarah yang terpercaya-, yang pertama kali mempelopori acara Maulid Nabi adalah Dinasti Ubaidiyyun atau disebut juga Fatimiyyun (silsilah keturunannya disandarkan pada Fatimah). Sebagai buktinya adalah penjelasan berikut ini. Al Maqriziy, seorang pakar sejarah mengatakan, Para khalifah Fatimiyyun memiliki banyak perayaan sepanjang tahun. Ada perayaan tahun baru, hari Asyura, maulid (hari kelahiran) ...