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Mencari Berkah dari Makanan Habib

Mencari Berkah dari Makanan Habib Soalan: Apa hukum mempercayai berkah kiai atau habib. Misalnya ada pengajian terus mengundang habib fulan, terus ketika diberi konsumsi habib tersebut ada sisa-sisa makanan ketika itu ada yang mengambil makanan tersebut karena dipercaya mengandung berkah, kesehatan dll. Jawaban: Diantara manusia yang boleh diambil berkahnya adalah Nabi kita Muhamamd shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Mengambil berkah di sini dalam arti mengambil manfaat dari jasad beliau, benda yang berasal dari tubuh beliau, seperti ludah atau keringat atau mengambil berkah dengan anggota badan yang terlepas dari beliau, seperti rambut beliau shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam. Terdapat banyak dalil yang menunjukkan masalah ini, diantaranya, a. Dari anas bin Malik radhiyallahu ‘anhu, beliau bercerita, “Setiap Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam selesai shalat subuh, orang-orang yang menjadi pembantu di Madinah, datang membawa wadah yang berisi air. Setiap kali dihadapkan bejana berisi air di de...

WISDOM FOR PARENTING

WISDOM FOR PARENTING 1- Avoid Giving your child everything he asks for. He will grow up believing that he has the right to get everything he wants. 2-Avoid laughing when your child speaks insúlting words. He will grow up thinking that dísréspect is entertainment. 3-Avoid remaining insénsitive to bâd behavior that he can display without scølding him for his bâd behavior. He will grow up thinking that there are no rules in society. 4- Avoid picking up anything that your child mésses up. He will grow up believing that others must take responsibility for his méss. 5- Avoid letting him watch any program on TV. He will grow up thinking that there is no difference between being a child and being an adult. 6- Avoid giving your child all the money he asks for. He will grow up thinking that getting money is easy and will not hesitate to stëal for it. 7- Always avoid putting yourself on his side when he is wrøng against the neighbors, his teachers, the police. He will grow up thinking that everyt...

It ends here

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It ends here All the gragra, from eighthen to eighty From morning to night Sunday to Monday January to December It ends here That seductive skin That oval face that turns every man on That flamboyant dress That charming  and elegant body It ends here That exotic cars That intelligence  That fifty degrees That beautiful wife  That fine children My friend it ends here That fame which you seek most That luxurious life That "upon all my wealth" That "do you know who I am?" It ends here That I am not your mate? I am richer than you  I am beautiful  Many boys woo me Infact girls fight to have me It all ends here That your good poem Your power of algebra  Your good English Your all round best It is just matter of time But it is a must Painful truth to accept  6ft awaits all That is where it all ends So you have nothing  You are greater than none Stop behaving as you are a god In a twinkling of an eye All will go into thin air..     Humble ...

Jangan biasakan menutup pintu dg tujuan biar tdk ad tamu

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته                             بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم                                         🥀TAMU🥀 🥀Jangan biasakan menutup pintu dg tujuan biar tdk ad tamu.....    Aplg menutup jln memasang portal........  Ada seorang perempuan mengeluh kepada Rasulullah SAW karena perilaku suaminya. Suaminya selalu mengundang orang-orang datang ke rumahnya dan menjamunya sehingga tamu-tamu tersebut menyebabkan sang istri menjadi repot dan merasa kelelahan. Namun ia tidak mendapatkan jawaban apa pun dari Rasulullah SAW tentang hal itu. Setelah beberapa waktu ... Rasulullah SAW pergi ke rumah suami-istri tersebut, Rasulullah SAW berkata kepada sang suami, "Sesungguhnya aku adalah tamu di rumahmu hari ini." Betapa bahagianya sang suami demi mendengar ucapan Rasulullah SAW tersebut, ma...

PHILOSOPHY ABOUT TOO MUCH

*PHILOSOPHY ABOUT TOO MUCH*  1. If you speak too much, you will lie 2. If you think too much,you will be depressed  3. If you cry too much, you will lose your sight  4. If you love too much, you will be lost 5. If you care too much,you will be taken for granted  6.If you play too much, You will not be taken serious often 7.If you trust too much, you will be betrayed  8.If you work too much, You will die of stress  9.If you eat too much,  You will be obsessed  10.If you sleep too much, You will be idle 11. If you spend too much, You will have no future 12.If you wear make up too much, You will lose your beauty  13.If you look too much, You will lose your focus 14.If you pursue life too much, you will lose everything.  BUT.......... * When you pray too much, You will have everything  *When you have too much patience, you will have the whole world *When you invest too much, You will have your future guaranteed  *When you let go to...

We're not here to be their friends

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Good Story.... This morning a few people saw my daughter walking to school & me following behind her. Some asked me why I did that & others gave me a stank stare. I’m very well aware she’s only 10. And she walked Because I told her to. Because she forgot how to treat adults, So I told her to walk. Because she mistakenly associated her size with her authority, So I told her to walk. Because her behavior towards me & other adults is unacceptable,So I told her to walk Until she can appreciate the free ride to/from school. Respect and listen to me. I'm the mom who is watching to know that she's safe. I'm also the mom who is not here to be her friend. I'm the mom who is okay with her child being angry at her sometimes. I'm the mom who is desperate to leave this world better than I found it, through the people I'm bringing up into it. A lot of people are so afraid to hurt their kid's feelings, but she'll only be mad at me for a little while. I'...

PEROKOK ITU JAHAT, MENZALIMI BANYAK ORANG DENGAN ASAPNYA

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PEROKOK ITU JAHAT, MENZALIMI BANYAK ORANG DENGAN ASAPNYA Dari Ibnu ‘Abbas radhiyallahu ‘anhuma, Mu’adz bin Jabal pernah diberi wasiat oleh Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam ketika diutus ke Yaman, “Hati-hatilah dengan doa orang yang dizalimi. Ingatlah tak ada hijab antara dirinya dengan Allah (doa tersebut akan diijabahi, tak tertolak, pen-).” (HR. Bukhari, no. 1496 dan Muslim, no. 19) Hadits ini kata Imam Nawawi dalam Syarh Shahih Muslim (9: 100) menunjukkan larangan untuk bertindak zalim. Ibnu Hajar dalam Fath Al-Bar (3: 360) menyatakan bahwa doa tetap terkabul walaupun yang mendoakan adalah orang yang fajir (gemar maksiat). Sebagaimana disebutkan dalam hadits dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, “Doa orang yang terzalimi itu terkabul meskipun yang mendoakan adalah orang yang fajir (gemar maksiat). Kefajiran yang perbuat itu tanggung jawab dirinya.” (HR. Ahmad, 2: 367) Syukur-syukur orang yang dizalimi malah doakan kebaikan, “Moga ...

Nothing is eternal in this world, not even our problems.

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Charlie Chaplin died aged 88. He left us 4 statements: (1) Nothing is eternal in this world, not even our problems. (2) I like to walk in the rain, because no one can see my tears. (3) The most wasted day in life is the day we don't laugh. (4) The six best doctors in the world... 1. sunshine, 2. Rest, 3. Exercise, 4. diet, 5. Self-esteem 6. friends. Keep them in all stages of your life and enjoy healthy life... If you see the moon you will see the beauty of God..... If you see the sun you will see the power of god.. If you look in the mirror, you will see God's best creation. Believe it then. We are all tourists, God is our travel agent who already made our itineraries, bookings and destinations... Trust him and enjoy LIFE. Life is just a journey! Live today!!!! Read More👉👉👉https://araniea.com/photos-of-famous-historical-figures-in-color/

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بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكَ فِي الْمَوْهُوْبِ لَكَ، وَشَكَرْتَ الْوَاهِبَ، وَبَلَغَ أَشُدَّهُ، وَرُزِقْتَ بِرَّهُ

If almost everyone can learn programming for free, why is the salary relatively very high?

If almost everyone can learn programming for free, why is the salary relatively very high? Because almost no one cares about programming. Don’t get me wrong. Everyone looooooves the idea of sitting around all day and pushing buttons and making bank. Everyone wants to try. But no one wants to stick with it. It is impossible to be a good programmer unless you are very passionate about the craft. You have to take great joy in seeing your concepts and inventions come to life. Most people don’t have the patience. They want results now now now. Code requires patience and passion. Learning to code well takes years. Maybe even decades. If someone is truly patient and passionate, they can become a world class programmer with just a few hundred bucks worth of books, and a cheap laptop. Hell, they might not even need the books, if they have a stable Internet connection. But most people try to do it for the money. All these people fail and go do something easier. When you are happy eating...

LIFE LESSON

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LIFE LESSON  1. Don’t lend money to your family. Give it. 2. Never shake a hand while sitting down. 3. Stop telling people more than they need to know. 4. Never eat the last piece of something you didn't buy. 5. Don't throw your friend under the bus to impress someone. 6. Never insult the cooking when you are the guest. 7. Don't use the urinal next to an occupied one. 8. Don't take out your phone during a conversation. 9. Never take credit for work you didn't do. 10. Listen, nod, and most of all make eye contact. 11. Don't make fun of your friend in front of his kids. 12. Never let emotions overpower you. 13. Never beg for a relationship. 14. Dress well no matter what the occasion. 15. Never kick a man when he is already down.  Thank you for reading 📚 ❤️ 🙏

How can I be smart and mysterious?

(1) Speak less and listen more. (2) Never argue with fools, especially on subjects like religion, politics, and on controversies. Just agree with them and go away (3)Be humble and polite to others. No matter how they treat you. In the future, they will regret it. (4) Never reveal your next move to anyone. Secrets too (5) Don't speak about yourself. (6) Always make eye contact and be confident while talking to others. (7) Don't ever try to copy someone. Be unique. (8) Do everything with full dedication. Otherwise don't initiate it. (9)silence is the best answer to haters. (10) Don't follow the mob blindly. Always take decisions on behalf of facts and logic. (11) Don't hesitate to ask questions. It shows that you are paying attention as well as being interested in the conversation. (12) Don't be always available for others. (13) keep yourself engaged in something. (14)Try to deliver answers on quora regularly. Also, read others. Believe me, this platform will make...

Mengapa Gojek yang ruginya berbilang trilyun masih terus beroperasi?

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Seperti yang sudah saya tulis di jawaban saya sebelumnya ttg Goto, perusahaan model corn-corn baik unicorn, decacorn dll itu adalah perusahaan balon, terlihat besar tapi isinya angin. Perusahaan macam ini valuasinya selalu dibuat naik, dengan menjual "potensi" keuntungan. Investor yg masuk ke Goto itu bukan cari dividen dari memiliki saham, tapi hanya punya niat menjual lagi sahamnya setelah valuasinya dibuat naik lagi. Sampai suatu saat, sudah tak ada yg percaya dengan saham Goto yang sudah sangat sangat overvalue maka harga saham anjlok total dan saham suspend. Maka pemegang saham terakhir baik yang di bursa saham atau diluar bursa akan jadi pemegang kertas tak ada nilai, tak bisa dijual. Jadi tapi kenapa masih bisa beroperasi ? Karena ada yang diuntungkan, yang diuntungkan itu adalah para supplier Goto, seperti perusaan iklan, media, perusahaan IT, dll. Tinggal cari siapa saja yang masuk dalam Account Payable dari Gojek. Saya belum sempat lakukan investigasi disini, tapi s...

Menghadiahkan Pahala Sedekah Untuk Mayit

Bismillah Menghadiahkan Pahala Sedekah Untuk Mayit Menghadiahkan pahala sedekah untuk mayit termasuk praktik yang dibolehkan dan pahalanya bisa sampai kepada mayit. Di antara dalil tegas dalam masalah ini adalah hadis dari Aisyah radhiallahu ‘anha, bahwa ada seorang lelaki yang berkata kepada Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam, إِنَّ أُمِّيَ افْتُلِتَتْ نَفْسَهَا وَلَمْ تُوصِ، وَأَظُنُّهَا لَوْ تَكَلَّمَتْ تَصَدَّقَتْ، أَفَلَهَا أَجْرٌ، إِنْ تَصَدَّقْتُ عَنْهَا؟ قَالَ: «نَعَمْ تَصَدَّقْ عَنْهَا» “Ibuku mati mendadak, sementara beliau belum berwasiat. Saya yakin, andaikan beliau sempat berbicara, beliau akan bersedekah. Apakah beliau akan mendapat aliran pahala, jika saya bersedekah atas nama beliau?” Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam menjawab, “Ya. Bersedekahlah atas nama ibumu.” (HR. Bukhari 1388 dan Muslim 1004) Dalam hadis yang lain, dari Ibnu Abbas radhiallahu ‘anhuma, bahwa ibunya Sa’d bin Ubadah meninggal dunia, ketika Sa’d tidak ada di rumah. Sa’d berkata, يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إ...

when someone needs you for their problems, give them your hand

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🐀LESSON FOR MANY🐀 A mouse, looking through a hole in the wall, sees the farmer and his wife open a package. He was terrified to see that it was a mousetrap. He ran to the patio to warn everyone. -"There is a mousetrap at home!". The chicken that was cackling and digging says: "excuse me, Mr. Mouse, I understand that it is a big problem for you, but it does not hurt me at all." So, the rodent went to the lamb and he says the same thing: "Excuse me Mr. Mouse, but I don't think I can do more than ask for you in my prayers." The mouse went to the cow and she said: "But am I in danger? I think not!" said the cow. The mouse returned to the house, worried and dejected to face the farmer's mousetrap. That night a great noise was heard like that of the mousetrap catching its victim, the woman ran to see what she had caught. In the dark she did not see that the mousetrap caught the tail of a poisonous snake. The speedy snake bit the woman, the fa...

tertawalah riang di hadapan ayahmu

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Bismillah Ibuku selalu berpesan kepadaku : Nak, tertawalah riang di hadapan ayahmu manakala beliau pulang ke rumah, Karena dunia luar itu begitu kejamnya sehingga dapat membahayakan ayahmu... Tahukah kau nak, apa beda ibu dengan ayah? Ibu membawamu (mengandungmu) di dalam rahim selama 9 bulan, namun ayahmu membawamu seumur hidupnya, tanpa kau sadari... Ibu berupaya kuat agar kau tak merasa lapar, namun ayahmu lah yang mengajarimu agar kau tak kelaparan lagi, tanpa kau fahami... Ibu menggendongmu (dengan memelukmu) di dada, namun ayahmu menggendongmu di punggungnya, tanpa kau perhatikan... Cinta ibu ini sudah kau kenali mulai dari semenjak kau lahir, namun cinta ayahmu 'kan kau ketahui setelah kau menjadi seorang ayah... Karena itu bersabarlah dengan baik... Ibu, memang tak ternilai harganya,  sementara ayahmu, takkan bisa dikembalikan oleh waktu... Dialihbahasakan oleh @abinyasalma www.pustakasunnah.net || Toko Buku Islam Barakallahu Fiikum Kajian Ilmu Islam Muslim dan Muslimah ...

Allah melarang mencampur-adukkan kebenaran dan kebathilan.

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Bismillah Ini Bukan Perkara 'Wahabi' Yang Dilanggar Tetapi Syariat Ilahi Yg Dizalimi Kalau ini terjadi pada dirimu dan keluargamu baru kamu tau betapa zalim dan kejam kamu memaksa orang mengikuti tradisi amalan hindu. Coba bayangkan kalau seblm mati simayit sempat dirawat di rumah sakit dgn biaya yg besar, kehidupan miskin dan ada kebutuhan anak2 kecil dirumitkan oleh manusia yg  1. Bernafsu utk mendptkan makanan dan uang dari majelis tahlilan yg tidak ada perintah tp ada larangan mengada2kan amalan yg baru  dan keempat mazhab tidak mengajarkan dan bahkan membencinya.  Dan kegiatan2 spt itu meniru kegiatan2 tradisi agama hindu, yg Rasulullah Shollalahu 'alaihi wa sallam MELARANGNYA. 2. KEBODOHAN manusia karena Rasulullah Shollalahu 'alaihi wa sallam sudah memberi batasan barangsiapa melakukan sesuatu amalan yg tidak ada atasnya tuntunan syariat kami tertolak ( HR Muslim) TIDAK MEMPERSOALKAN amalan bacaan al Quran, berzikir, berdoa dan bersedekah karena adalah AMALAN YG ...

Happy New Month my good People

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A poor man always think the rich man made his wealth out of luck.   And the rich man believes the poor is poor because he is lazy.  A young lady who married very early  thinks ladies who are finding it hard to get married have bad character.  A man who just graduated and get a job immediately thinks he is smarter than others.  While a woman who just got married and start giving birth sees "barren" women as people who lived a wayward life.  If only the poor knew the price the rich paid to get to top and if only the rich knows the battles, challenges that the poor is going  through, none will ever form a theory about each other.  If the poor can't appreciate the rich man's success let him mind his business if it is easy to be rich he wouldn't have been poor.  And if the rich won't help the poor grow at least they should not kill the spirit of a struggling man.  If only you know what people endure or fight behind the scene you will alw...

We make a Living by what we get, We make a Life by what we give.

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I absolutely love this story........ It made me cry. Very touching. "An 87 Year Old College Student Named Rose The first day of school our professor introduced himself and challenged us to get to know someone we didn’t already know. I stood up to look around when a gentle hand touched my shoulder. I turned round to find a wrinkled, little old lady beaming up at me with a smile that lit up her entire being. She said, “Hi handsome. My name is Rose. I’m eighty-seven years old. Can I give you a hug?” I laughed and enthusiastically responded, “Of course you may!” and she gave me a giant squeeze. “Why are you in college at such a young, innocent age?” I asked. She jokingly replied, “I’m here to meet a rich husband, get married, and have a couple of kids…” “No seriously,” I asked. I was curious what may have motivated her to be taking on this challenge at her age. “I always dreamed of having a college education and now I’m getting one!” she told me. After class we walked to the student u...

Sukses berbekal dari harapan orangtuanya.

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Anak ini kemarin sempet trending. Foto dia diupload sama akun base SBMPTN n akun base UGM.  Ceritanya dia lahir dari keluarga prasejahtera. Ibunya 'hanya' buruh tani, lulusan SD yang dgn susah payah membesarkan 3 orang anaknya. Anak ini samsek nggak pernah les apapun, nggak ikut bimbel dan buku-bukunya juga terbatas, asal sekolahnya dari SMK.  Cara dia belajar adalah cari-cari pembahasan soal colongan. Dari twitter, IG, Youtube, semua yg gratisan dia jabanin. Pastinya juga cari wifi gratisan. Tapi dia bisa masuk ke UGM di tahun pertama SBMPTN (tahun ini namanya SNBT). Di jurusan industri peternakan, seperti impiannya. Dan dia bangga banget. Bagi dia yang sangat menghargai perjuangan ibunya, ijazahnya setinggi apapun kelak tetap lebih berharga ijazah ibunya yang 'hanya' ijazah SD. Karena dari ijazah SD ibunya lah dia bisa terus sekolah 🥲 Di tiktok trending, di twitter jg trending. Masalahnya, mungkin di twitter banyak anak2 yg nggak bahagia, jd tanggapannya justru mence...

Kedustaan terbesar di abad ini

JANGANKAN ALFATIHA BERJAMAAH SEBELUM KAJIAN, TAHLILAN, MAULIDAN, HAUL SHOLAWAT DANGDUTAN SAJA TIDAK DIDAKWAHKAN 4 IMAM MAZHAB, TAPI MEREKA PERCAYA DIRI MENGAKU BERMAZHAB. . Kedustaan terbesar di abad ini adalah mewajibkan untuk mengikuti 1 mazhab saja (fanatik), namun melakukan apa yang tidak dilakukan oleh 4 mazhab. Yang jadi soal mengaku bermazhab, tapi amalannya amalan syiah dan sufi, aqidahnya aqidah asyariy, maturidy, wihdatul wujud, muktazilah dan jahmiyah. . Imam mazhab mana yang mendakwahkan tahlilan, kenduri arwah, yasinan berjamaah, maulidan, haul, sholawat dangdut dll. Lalu mazhab apa yang dibawa, ketika mendakwahi tahlilan, kenduri arwah, yasinan berjamaah, maulidan, haul, sholawat dangdut dll...? Sungguh ini kedustaan terbesar, dan cara mengelabui umat terparah di dunia ini. https://youtu.be/tM8s-P5aJwk

KEMULIAAN ALFATIHA BUKAN DISEMBARANG TEMPAT APALAGI DENGAN TERIAKAN BERJAMAAH.

KEMULIAAN ALFATIHA BUKAN DISEMBARANG TEMPAT APALAGI DENGAN TERIAKAN BERJAMAAH. . Dalil Khabar mengenai kemulian sebuah SURAT YANG TIDAK PERNAH DIBERIKAN KEPADA NABI LAINNYA, DAN TIDAK ADA DALAM TAURAT, ZABUR DAN INJIL, bukan jadi dalil perintah baca alfatiha ketika memulai khutbah atau kajian. KAPAN DIBACANYA JUGA SUDAH NABI JELASKAN DALAM SAMBUNGAN HADIST YANG SAMA. Dan nabi tidak pernah memulai khutbah atau dakwahnya dengan membaca alfatiha. . Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam dari Ibnu ‘Abbas berikut ini: “Ketika Jibril sedang duduk bersama Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam, ia mendengar suara gemuruh dari atas, lalu dia melihat ke atas sambil berkata, ‘itu adalah pintu langit yang terbuka hari ini. Sebelumnya tidak pernah terbuka sama seklai’. Lalu turunlah malaikat darinya. Jibril berkata, ‘inilah malaikat yang turun dari langit , ia belum pernah sama sekali turun ke bumi sebelumnya. Lalu sang malaikat mengucapkan salam kemudian berkata, ‘bergembiralah dengan dua cahaya yang...

On the day I die a lot will happen.

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On the day I die a lot will happen. A lot will change. The world will be busy. On the day I die, all the important appointments I made will be left unattended. The many plans I had yet to complete will remain forever undone. The calendar that ruled so many of my days will now be irrelevant to me. All the material things I so chased and guarded and treasured will be left in the hands of others to care for or to discard. The words of my critics which so burdened me will cease to sting or capture anymore. They will be unable to touch me. The arguments I believed I’d won here will not serve me or bring me any satisfaction or solace.    All my noisy incoming notifications and texts and calls will go unanswered. Their great urgency will be quieted. My many nagging regrets will all be resigned to the past, where they should have always been anyway. Every superficial worry about my body that I ever labored over; about my waistline or hairline or frown lines, will fade away. My careful...

What is Halal? Why You Should Consider Eating Halal!

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🌸What is Halal? Why You Should Consider Eating Halal! What Does ‘Halal’ Really Mean? Nowadays, many of us are in search of the healthiest foods. We want to ensure what we eat is grown, raised, or prepared with care for the highest level of nutrition. A good way to achieve that is to eat “Halal.” Have you ever seen labels reading ‘Halal’ and wondered what it meant? HALAL SIMPLY MEANS “LAWFUL” OR “PERMITTED” IN ARABIC AND, AS IT PERTAINS TO FOOD, REFERS TO WHAT MUSLIMS CAN EAT, WHAT INGREDIENTS ARE ALLOWED IN MEALS, AND HOW ANIMALS MUST BE SLAUGHTERED TO GUARANTEE LAWFUL CONSUMPTION. In short, everyone can eat Halal food. Because of the care involved in the raising and killing of animals to be used for Muslim meals, even your health could benefit from eating Halal meat. Another way to achieve healthy eating is by avoiding what God commands us not to eat. Food: Halal & Haram Under Islamic guidelines, you are free to eat any food except those which are deemed haram, which means “forbi...